🦸♀️ I’m Not One Type of Woman And That’s My Superpower
I’ve spent most of my adult life feeling a little confused by myself. Not in a “who am I?” kind of way. I know who I am, but more in the sense that I can be so many different versions of myself… all at once. And somehow, I’ve been made to feel like that’s wrong, weird, or unauthentic…
It’s like the world wants us to pick a lane. Be the quiet minimalist or the boss babe. Be the gentle mum or the driven career woman. Be the woo woo spiritual goddess or the science loving skeptic. But I am all of those things. At the same time and that’s a new level of authenticity that should be talked about more.
And I know I’m not alone.
🧅 Layers of Me (And Maybe You Too)
• I’m deeply spiritual. I believe in energy, angel numbers, divine timing. But I also love evidence, logic, and science backed facts. I’m both.
• I’m ultra girly. I love shopping, luxury brands, fancy cars, nice skincare, fine dining, botox and filler. But I also love slow living, veggie gardens, sourdough starters, kombucha, natural products, chickens, cooking from scratch, tiny homes and composting.
• I crave simplicity and peace but I’m also the woman that thrives off movement, dreams big, and feels like she’s suffocating at the idea of an average, stagnant life.
• I’m a mum. One who wants to be present for every single moment. Watching my daughter become this incredible little human is magic. But ADHD makes focus and not to mention emotional regulation a daily challenge and gentle parenting isn’t always so gentle when I’m disregulated and being present isn’t as easy as it should be.
• I’m an empath to my core. I feel other people’s sadness like it’s my own. I cry at the news, I cry at cartoons, I overthink what strangers are going through and feel for them deeply. But I also love a bit of drama, pop culture gossip, a trashy reality show and a spicy group chat.
• I love connection. But I also hide away. Sometimes I want to share everything, and other times I go completely quiet because my soul needs it.
🪞So Who Am I?
All of the above. I’m a multi dimensional woman, each and everyone of these is an authentic version of me and I’m done trying to flatten myself for anyone else’s comfort or shrink myself to fit into a box.
Sometimes too, people get different versions of me, not because I’m being fake but because I’m layered. I’m fluid. I’m deeply intuitive. The energy I carry shifts depending on who I’m with, and which parts of me feel safe, seen, or called forward in that moment. Some people get the wild, hilarious, say anything me. Others get the grounded, spiritual nurturing version. Others the homesteader version who talks about her veggie gardens. Some might only ever meet the soft observer or the ultra girly girl who love brands but every version is me. It’s all real. It’s all true. And it’s taken me time to understand that shifting doesn’t make me any less authentic, it just makes me human, complex, and deeply connected to my environment.
If You’ve Ever Felt “Too Much” or “Not Enough” at the Same Time…
I see you. You’re probably layered too. Maybe you’ve tried to squeeze yourself into a mould that never quite felt right. Maybe you’ve tried to quiet parts of yourself so you’d be more digestible. Maybe you’re exhausted from trying to simplify something that was always meant to be beautifully complex.
It’s okay to be it all. You don’t have to pick a lane. You don’t have to label your identity like it’s a Pinterest aesthetic board. You get to be you in full, ever changing, deeply authentic colour.
🔮 And Just So You Know…
If you’re into crystals and spreadsheets, manifesting and marketing, raising babies and raising the bar for your own life, you’re not confused. You’re not scattered. You’re a whole ass masterpiece. Let’s stop trying to make ourselves fit into boxes that were never made for women like us.
We don’t need to choose one version of ourselves.
We’re allowed to be all of them all at once.
And that… is the magic.
If you feel like this resonated with you in anyway, feel free to leave a comment or flick me an email via the contact page. I love connecting. 🫶🏻